I think the only thing is to continue to be flexible enough to change your defaults, to correct your assumptions. I want to always be that limber...
Your approach to your past seems ideal. No one could ever think you were angling for pity. You talk about stuff as just the facts of your memory, just the way it was.
--there's more at the tip of my consciousness, but I can't quite reach out and grasp it and articulate it. Life is so REAL, and the realness of it is ... a staggering blessing? Maybe that's what I mean to say. But sometimes the pains are staggering too. It's all in there together.... I think it's part of what makes it breathtaking.
... Yeah, whatever it is I'm trying to grasp, I haven't quite managed it yet...
![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
branchandroot
no subject
Date: 10 Jul 2011 11:26 pm (UTC)Your approach to your past seems ideal. No one could ever think you were angling for pity. You talk about stuff as just the facts of your memory, just the way it was.
--there's more at the tip of my consciousness, but I can't quite reach out and grasp it and articulate it. Life is so REAL, and the realness of it is ... a staggering blessing? Maybe that's what I mean to say. But sometimes the pains are staggering too. It's all in there together.... I think it's part of what makes it breathtaking.
... Yeah, whatever it is I'm trying to grasp, I haven't quite managed it yet...