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wayfaringwordhackWe had a good but busy time for the past couple of days, so I haven't been here to wish people a Merry Christmas. So, a wee bit late, but not:
HAPPY HOLIDAYS!
As 2013 comes to a close, I've been thinking about 2014 and what I would like to accomplish. Then last night it occurred to me: 2014 should be the year of "Icing."
I am not going to make goals.
I'm not going to obsess over what I "need" to do.
I'm not going to apply unnecessary pressure to myself.
I'm having a baby at the beginning of the year, and taking care of a newborn is a lot of work. I don't need to add stress to that by feeling like a failure when I don't meet self-imposed goals.
Therefore, in 2014, I'm going to be the best mom I can be to my children, the best wife I can be to my husband, and the best friend I can be to myself...
Everything else, any accomplishments, projects finished, etc. beyond that are all going to be icing on the cake.
Bring on the New Year.
HAPPY HOLIDAYS!
As 2013 comes to a close, I've been thinking about 2014 and what I would like to accomplish. Then last night it occurred to me: 2014 should be the year of "Icing."
I am not going to make goals.
I'm not going to obsess over what I "need" to do.
I'm not going to apply unnecessary pressure to myself.
I'm having a baby at the beginning of the year, and taking care of a newborn is a lot of work. I don't need to add stress to that by feeling like a failure when I don't meet self-imposed goals.
Therefore, in 2014, I'm going to be the best mom I can be to my children, the best wife I can be to my husband, and the best friend I can be to myself...
Everything else, any accomplishments, projects finished, etc. beyond that are all going to be icing on the cake.
Bring on the New Year.